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- Elizabeth J.

I worked literally up to the day my water broke to save as much paid time off (PTO) as possible to use. At the time, I worked as a nurse for a large children’s healthcare organization that did not provide additional paid maternity leave. Babies of course don’t follow birth plans, and I ended up with Pregnancy Induced Hypertension and a vacuum-assisted birth after 18 hours of labor, a little over four weeks early. As my husband’s company did not have paternity leave, he had to go back to work within days of the birth, leaving me home with my mother who was battling cancer to support me through birth injuries and a premature, very small baby. While I had FMLA and some paid time off days to leverage, managing weight for preemies on top of nursing challenges compound to make even the ten weeks I had too short (he was just able to fit into a wearable carrier by the time I got back to work). My status as an employee wasn’t fully protected- I lost tuition reimbursement privileges (was completing the last semester of my master’s degree) which was hurtful given my tenure at the facility of three years at the time.

Thank you Elizabeth for sharing this story with Moms on Maternity. It is our stories that will move people into action.